Showing posts with label pregnancy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pregnancy. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Crunchy Mom?

While I don't have anything physically ready for the baby, I am mentally preparing myself.

Living off of a tight income, I'm preparing for the fact that I am going to need to be very budget conscious. I'm great at making a budget, I'm TERRIBLE at following one. One of the things that I am seriously considering, is adopting some crunchy mom habits.

According to urbandictionary.com:
A member of an increasingly growing group of moms who are neo-hippies.

They generally believe (for varying reasons) that there is something bad or less beneficial about buying mainstream products or doing other common activities in the mainstream way.

You might be a crunchy mom if you:

...bake all your own bread
...make your own jam, jelly, pickles, applesauce, etc.
...gave birth at home -- by CHOICE! (With a midwife, doula, or unassisted!)
...prefer to teach your children yourself at home instead of letting the public or private schools do it for you.
...grow your own food as much as possible, and buy the rest at farmer's markets or health food stores.
...are vegan or vegetarian.
...choose not to use birth control.
...don't wear a bra or shoes.
...don't use shampoo or soap, but instead maybe sea salt or a variety of other things.
...had your placenta chopped up for an anti-depressant pill or smoothie.
...have no television in your home -- and actually read BOOKS for entertainment!
...grind your own grain to make your own bread with (did you know that wheat looses about 90% of it's nutrients within 7 days of being ground?)
...don't cut your hair or wear pants (not going around half-naked, but wearing skirts! Silly people! Get your mind out of the gutter!)
...can add 10 more things to this list that I didn't even think of!

If it were a spectrum, on the extreme far end you would find Amish.
A little extreme huh? I don't have the patience or the drive to be a full on crunchy mom. But some of their Eco-friendly ways are SUPER budget friendly.

Here are some of the things I'm considering:
 
Cloth Diapering- Maybe not full time, maybe not at all, but I want to try it. Did you know that for between $300-500 you can diaper your newborn through potty training AND possibly re-use them for other children or re-sell them. The average cost to use disposable diapers for one child is between $1000-3000.

Breast-feeding: not only is it eco-friendly and better for the baby, it's  FREE
 
Growing your own food--Just kidding---I've said that I have wanted to grow vegetables since I moved out of my parents house, not one seed has been planted. Maybe one day.
 
Making baby food- 60% of what you are paying for is packaging. I'm already buying food, why not just buy a little extra, mush it up  and give it to baby. 
 
Baby-wearing: Sometimes. I like the idea of using baby carriers rather than having them laid on the back of their head all day in  a stroller/ on a bed/floor. It also helps with bonding between the child and parent. 
 
What are some other crunchy-momma habits that you practice?


Monday, March 24, 2014

Making my wardrobe last as my bump gets bigger

I'm officially at the halfway point in my pregnancy and my bump is beginning to grow, which means that my regular clothes are starting to become really uncomfortable.

I'm trying at ALL costs to avoid looking like this:








But, as a mama to be on a budget---like no budget for clothes--- I'm trying to make my everyday clothes last as long as possible. I've invested in a couple of pieces to make my wardrobe expand a little further, but not more than $60.


My Investments:

A new Bra- My boobs exploded a full size with in weeks of finding out I was pregnant. I went to Target and spent $15 on a new one The only reason I didn't buy a $9.99 bra is that they didn't have my size!

















Belly Band- They feel a little weird, but you leave your pants unzipped and place the belly band on top of them and your pants will still fit for a little while.









Maternity Jeans- I found a pair similar to these at Gordmans. At least one pair is worth the investment.
















What I'm not spending money on:
Tank Tops- I have quite a few long tank tops in my wardrobe already that will be accompanying me through this preggo journey. They are great to wear under tunics, or under just about anything and will make sure that my ever growing belly will remain covered at all times.

Leggings- ! They are life savers at this point. Most days I just don't want to wear pants, so I don't! Top to bottom they stretch and they are comfortable. I did buy a pair of thicker yoga pants so the material looks a little nicer, but my $5-10 leggings have made quite a few appearances in my wardrobe lately.

Cardigans and tunics- I love comfortable, casual looks, so I have tons of this style shirt and they should fit me throug most of my pregnancy.

Maxi Skirts/dresses- Since I'm expecting a summer baby, I will probably live in these in the last few months of my pregnancy.


Some styling tips to help get me through:
Monochromatic: I'm currently in a stage where if you don't know me, you might not know that I'm pregnant. To stay away from feeling fluffy, wear all the same color! It's slimming no matter what your size since your eyes aren't drawn to one part of the body over another.


Patterns- Stripes, poke dots, flowers etc. Add some interest into your outfit and they will help camouflage some of your spots that you would like to draw attention from.

Embrace the bump: remember how frumpy women in the 80's looked because the maternity dress code was a moomoo. Boxy, loose, and lifeless clothing is not sexy. Don't be afraid to dress your bump and show it off.