Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Crunchy Mom?

While I don't have anything physically ready for the baby, I am mentally preparing myself.

Living off of a tight income, I'm preparing for the fact that I am going to need to be very budget conscious. I'm great at making a budget, I'm TERRIBLE at following one. One of the things that I am seriously considering, is adopting some crunchy mom habits.

According to urbandictionary.com:
A member of an increasingly growing group of moms who are neo-hippies.

They generally believe (for varying reasons) that there is something bad or less beneficial about buying mainstream products or doing other common activities in the mainstream way.

You might be a crunchy mom if you:

...bake all your own bread
...make your own jam, jelly, pickles, applesauce, etc.
...gave birth at home -- by CHOICE! (With a midwife, doula, or unassisted!)
...prefer to teach your children yourself at home instead of letting the public or private schools do it for you.
...grow your own food as much as possible, and buy the rest at farmer's markets or health food stores.
...are vegan or vegetarian.
...choose not to use birth control.
...don't wear a bra or shoes.
...don't use shampoo or soap, but instead maybe sea salt or a variety of other things.
...had your placenta chopped up for an anti-depressant pill or smoothie.
...have no television in your home -- and actually read BOOKS for entertainment!
...grind your own grain to make your own bread with (did you know that wheat looses about 90% of it's nutrients within 7 days of being ground?)
...don't cut your hair or wear pants (not going around half-naked, but wearing skirts! Silly people! Get your mind out of the gutter!)
...can add 10 more things to this list that I didn't even think of!

If it were a spectrum, on the extreme far end you would find Amish.
A little extreme huh? I don't have the patience or the drive to be a full on crunchy mom. But some of their Eco-friendly ways are SUPER budget friendly.

Here are some of the things I'm considering:
 
Cloth Diapering- Maybe not full time, maybe not at all, but I want to try it. Did you know that for between $300-500 you can diaper your newborn through potty training AND possibly re-use them for other children or re-sell them. The average cost to use disposable diapers for one child is between $1000-3000.

Breast-feeding: not only is it eco-friendly and better for the baby, it's  FREE
 
Growing your own food--Just kidding---I've said that I have wanted to grow vegetables since I moved out of my parents house, not one seed has been planted. Maybe one day.
 
Making baby food- 60% of what you are paying for is packaging. I'm already buying food, why not just buy a little extra, mush it up  and give it to baby. 
 
Baby-wearing: Sometimes. I like the idea of using baby carriers rather than having them laid on the back of their head all day in  a stroller/ on a bed/floor. It also helps with bonding between the child and parent. 
 
What are some other crunchy-momma habits that you practice?


Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Overwhelmed



Today I am feeling overwhelmed. I realized last night that I am in the back end of this pregnancy and I'm not prepared. My relationship is on the rocks. I'm broke. I don't have anything I need for the baby. I'm broke (again).

I got into a fight with the boyfriend on the way to work today. Being pissed off at 9am is not a great way to start. So, I'm sitting in my cube..looking pissed off and unsocial (I wear this face really well)...and the ever lovely, unsolicited, mommy advice avalanches in.

Oh aren't you so excited for the 3 months of maternity leave?
Me: no, I'll be taking the 6 weeks allowance and might come back part time for two weeks after that
oh, well at least it's paid
me: no, you only get part of your paycheck on leave
well aren't there laws against that? can your parents help you? what are you going to do? cant you get state assistance? cant your boyfriend work? cant you do anything? It's super hard you know, like really hard, here is a list of all of the horrible things i went through when I had babies back to back at 19.

OMG shut the F(#* UP!  Someone please have a bottle of wine for me....and please gift me with alcohol once the baby comes.


Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Lookbooks

One of my favorite parts of my job is our photoshoots.

Twice a year we put together a lookbook that contains images of the upcoming seasons shoes. It is a lot of work from all of the departments in our office that comes together with our lookbooks  that we prepare to show at our Tradeshows.


Here are the lookbooks we did last season:
Testosterone:

Diba True:
Luichiny:


Luichiny Formal:
Bronx:

Thursday, April 10, 2014

It's a......

We had our ultrasound last week and baby Runge let us know that he is a big healthy baby boy.

I'm feeling much better these days and am getting excited as I am starting to feel his little movements and see my stomach getting bigger everyday.

Ricky and I are narrowing down the name list and have a few favorites.

It's hard to imagine that this little guy will be here in just a few short months!